Johan had come to that stage in life when the children moved out and he found the existence unbearable structured and dreary in his meager emotionally inhibited life in marriage. One day a letter arrived from the labour office about a job as a data administrator on a dating site that he was invited to search, but to top it all even practicing how dating worked concretely, otherwise he risked losing the UIF. Thus he had contact with many young striking ladies in East Asia, mainly in the Philippines and decided with irrefutable determination to divorce her and leave the celibacy Sweden for a long-standing, partly risqué, but otherwise very exciting stay in the Philippines, Thailand and Malaysia. The book's action is based on a true story.