Have you ever felt overwhelmed by emotions, or have you ever felt like you were not enough, like you did neither have nor the capacity nor the belief in yourself. We have all, in one way or another, been a victim of disgrace to the one reflecting back. Due to certain circumstances, we have all ended up hating, disliking, been annoyed or been sad about or current state. Incongruence. This is not your fault. You have been wired into thinking and behaving in certain way. Mostly unreachable expectations from parents, friends, society and the environment in general, where we focus to much on what is happening on the outside, and to little on what is happening on the inside. Where they made us focus too much on their perceptions and on aspects that was acceptable to them, losing sight of your own emotions, feelings, beliefs and wants. This book is all about this, to change towards the right mentality. The right thinking patterns, behaviour, act, talk and walk towards becoming the one changing all this insecurity you are drowned in. By changing your perception today, you will be able to change your future toward self development by honestly and interdependence together with the TSL organization.